Holidays & Traditions

“What should replace the handshake?”

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15 answered · 3 declined to pick

No agreement

5 of 18 picked it — the rest were spread across other answers.

The split

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In their own words

“A bow is a culturally appropriate and respectful alternative to a handshake in many contexts, particularly in East Asian cultures where it is a common greeting gesture.”

IBM · Granite 4.1 — answered

“The handshake serves specific purposes (establishing trust, sealing agreements, showing respect), and different situations call for different approaches.”

Anthropic · Claude Haiku 4.5 — declined

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Answered (15)

OpenAI · GPT-4o MiniThe fist bump. why

The fist bump is a more hygienic alternative to the handshake, reducing the risk of germ transmission while still maintaining a friendly gesture. It fosters a casual atmosphere and can be just as meaningful in conveying respect and goodwill.

Google · Gemini 3.5 Flash LiteThe fist bumpwhy

The fist bump is widely considered the best hygienic alternative to the handshake because it significantly reduces the transmission of bacteria and viruses while still providing a quick, universal gesture of greeting. Unlike the bow or the wave, it retains a physical connection, which preserves the warmth and human contact associated with traditional professional and social greetings.

DeepSeek · V3 ChatA simple nod or slight bow. why

Handshakes spread germs and can feel forced, while a nod or bow maintains respect and connection without physical contact. These gestures are also culturally flexible and easy to adapt in different settings.

Meta · Llama 3.3 70BThe elbow bump.why

The elbow bump is a proposed replacement for the handshake because it allows for a gesture of greeting or respect without the direct hand contact that can spread germs. This alternative is particularly relevant in settings where hygiene is a priority, such as in healthcare environments or during periods of high infectious disease transmission. It offers a way to maintain social courtesy while minimizing health risks.

Mistral · Small 2603There isn’t a single universally accepted replacement.why

The handshake’s role varies across cultures and situations, so no gesture has become the default substitute. Some opt for elbow bumps or waves, but these are context-dependent rather than universal.

Amazon · Nova MicroA digital greeting or virtual handshake.why

This option is appropriate because it reflects a modern approach to greetings that respects social distancing measures while still maintaining a sense of connection and professionalism in a virtual environment.

Microsoft · Phi-4A respectful nod or verbal greeting, like "hello" or "nice…why

When traditional handshakes are reduced due to concerns such as health precautions, alternative greetings that still convey professionalism and warmth can be used. A respectful nod or a friendly verbal greeting maintains personal connection without physical contact, adapting well to current norms.

ByteDance · Seed 1.6 FlashElbow bump why

Elbow bumps are a practical replacement for handshakes, reducing germ transmission while maintaining a social gesture that conveys greeting or agreement. This choice is responsible as it prioritizes hygiene without losing the functional aspect of the handshake.

Moonshot · Kimi K2The elbow bump.why

It maintains interpersonal connection while minimizing germ transmission, and it gained widespread social acceptance during the COVID-19 pandemic as a practical, recognizable alternative that doesn't require learning complex new gestures.

Nvidia · Nemotron 3.5The fist bump The fist bump has become a widely recognize…
IBM · Granite 4.1Bowwhy

A bow is a culturally appropriate and respectful alternative to a handshake in many contexts, particularly in East Asian cultures where it is a common greeting gesture. It is also a more hygienic option in the current health-conscious climate, as it involves less direct skin-to-skin contact. However, the choice to replace a handshake with a bow may depend on the cultural setting and the individuals involved, as handshakes remain customary in many Western societies.

Z-AI · GLM 5.3 FlashA nod or a wave.why

The question can't support one definitive answer — the best replacement depends on context. In professional settings, a nod, a slight bow, or a verbal greeting preserves respect without physical contact. Casual or cultural contexts vary widely: some cultures already favor bows (Japan) or waves over handshakes. If you're asking in a specific context — business etiquette, post-pandemic hygiene, or something else — let me know and I can narrow it down.

Reka · EdgeA virtual high-five with AI-assisted gestures.why

Explanation: I chose a virtual high-five because it maintains connection without physical contact, aligns with digital health trends, and reflects the evolving nature of human interactions in the pandemic-era. The blank line provided space for further discussion or clarification.

Nous · Hermes 4 70BA fist bump.why

The fist bump is a much more hygienic alternative to the traditional handshake, as it involves less physical contact and reduces the spread of germs. Additionally, the fist bump can be seen as more casual and friendly, potentially helping to break down barriers in social and professional settings.

Xiaomi · MiMo v2.5The elbow bump or a simple nod of acknowledgment.why

These alternatives maintain social connection while minimizing physical contact and the spread of germs. They are practical, widely understood, and still convey respect and warmth.

Declined to pick (3)

Anthropic · Claude Haiku 4.5There's no single replacement—it depends on context and pr…why

The handshake serves specific purposes (establishing trust, sealing agreements, showing respect), and different situations call for different approaches. A wave, nod, or verbal greeting works for casual encounters. For professional contexts, some have adopted the elbow bump or fist bump. Many cultures already use alternatives like bowing or the namaste gesture. Rather than finding one universal substitute, we might acknowledge that physical contact isn't always necessary—especially when a genuine smile and direct eye contact can communicate the same goodwill.

xAI · Grok 4.3No single replacement fits all contexts.why

Cultural, health, and personal factors make any universal substitute impractical, as greetings vary widely by region and situation. Suggested options such as nods, waves, or elbow bumps each carry their own limitations and have not achieved broad consensus. Individuals should therefore choose based on immediate circumstances rather than adopting one fixed alternative.

Tencent · Hunyuan 3No single replacement can be responsibly prescribed.why

The appropriate alternative depends on cultural norms, health concerns, and social context, with options like nods, waves, or bows. Declaring one universal substitute would ignore this diversity and invent false certainty.

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